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When you find yourself procrastinating on a particular project, or just delaying
in general, it is always a good idea to ask why. If a task is difficult, it's
difficult for a reason, and you need to know what that reason is, before you can
change it.
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Procrastination can be just a habit, and sometimes society even rewards you
for delaying action, such as late season Christmas bargains, or waiting past the
early adopter stage for new technology. And no one wants to make a poorly
thought out decision. But if delaying is causing problems in your life, ask
yourself these questions.
1. Do I
feel qualified to perform the task?
Am I in over my head? Being afraid that you will fail at something is a
sure-fire way to get you to stop before you've started. Push Past
Procrastination by being honest with yourself (and your supervisor if
applicable) about your level of training in this particular task. Don't
complain. Simply request help so that you can learn, or be willing to turn the
task over to someone qualified.
2. Is
this something I really want?
I was having trouble finishing a proposal for a seminar, and I couldn't figure
out why. As I started to really think about it, I realized that the project was
going to take a lot of time away from the work I really love. As soon as I
contacted an associate and got her to take over the project, I was able finish
my part of the presentation in no time. Push Past Procrastination by telling the
truth about what you really want out of life. Live as the star of your own life,
not as an extra in somebody else's.
3. Does
the task seem huge, even overwhelming?
Push Past Procrastination by breaking the job down into smaller steps to get it
under control and manageable. Instead of trying to set up a complete filing
system at one time, focus on setting up one particular group. Instead of forcing
yourself to write the perfect article in one afternoon, schedule a specific
amount of time you will work on it each day or week.
4. Do I
find it hard to just get started?
The hardest things about everyday tasks is getting started on them. It's kind
of like pushing a stalled car ... once you get going, everything rolls right
along. Push Past Procrastination by setting up systems that help you. For
example, if the mail piles up, try opening, sorting, filing, or throwing it away
immediately...before it ever leaves your hand.
5. Are
there too many things demanding my attention so that nothing of real value gets
done?
Push Past Procrastination by setting priorities. Develop a filter system so
that only what's contributing to your goals gets in. Making a task easier often
comes with making a choice to adjust your schedule, set boundaries, and
protecting your time and energy.
6. Is
this really my goal, or it it someone else's?
Are you doing it to "please" someone, but you would be much happier
being somewhere else and doing something else? Obviously there's nothing wrong
with pleasing the people you love. But if you find yourself in a role or job
that no longer fits, it's a signal that you will need to find another route to
take. Push Past Procrastination by examining how you spend your time, what roles
you are playing, and how they relate to who you are at this time in your life.
7. Am I
afraid of the outcome?
Procrastination may show up in employment when the fear of finishing one
project without having another on the horizon may mean that you would get laid
off. Procrastination may show up if you fear being blamed for bad results.
Procrastination may show up in personal situations as a fear of losing what you
now have, even if it's not what you want. Push Past Procrastination by having
reserves. Without reserves, you live in fear. Fear causes you to make decisions
you don't want to make, and that in turn makes you procrastinate. Build reserves
and fear will no longer slow you down.
About the Author:
Kathy Gates is Personal
Life Coach. She can help you set goals and priorities, take action, and make
changes. If you would like more information, please visit www.reallifecoach.com,
or call
480.998.5843.
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