Working at home requires discipline and focus in order to succeed. Years ago
when the “IBM Selectric” typewriter was the state-of-the-art “computer,”
I had a business in my home while juggling three children, a dog, and a
husband. No matter what happened with the family during the day, I still had
to function like a business and meet the deadlines I promised my clients. I
set goals and dreamed. I dreamed of having a celebrity as a customer. That
would bring some legitimacy to my home business, I thought.
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There were three celebrities living in the San Francisco Bay Area at the
time--Tennessee Ernie Ford, Bing Crosby, and Shirley Temple Black. I
promised myself that I would bring my secretarial service to their
attention. It was on my mind all the time but I did not have the time to act
on it. A few months later I received a phone call from a potential client
who needed a speech typed right away. I typed the speech, meeting the urgent
deadline: After all, I had to live up to my business name--Instant Girl
Friday! That day my dream came true--I had my first celebrity client,
Shirley Temple Black. It was then I learned the power of dreaming and
believing that it would happen.
A few years ago, while interviewing some Silicon Valley achievers, I
discovered that successful people are dreamers, shakers and movers. While
others talk about their dreams, achievers are doing it. They don’t wait
for the right time, right weather or approval from others. They jump in and
take charge. They have a lot of fun along the way as they explore, discover,
plan and act on their dreams.
Take a look at the 8 traits listed below that identify the success
strategies of the Silicon Valley achievers that I interviewed. Rate yourself
on each trait and practice improving those traits that need strengthening.
In no time you will find yourself achieving more than you ever dreamed
possible.
Rating chart:
- 1 = Not one of my strong points.
- 2 = I will work on this at least once a week. I will ask for
support.
- 3 = I am good at this when I choose to be. I need to stay
focused.
- 4 = I do quite well at this most of the time.
- 5 = This is one of my strong points. I could do this in my sleep.
The Success Traits of Silicon Valley Dynamos
1. Believe in
Yourself.
Be positive. Be bold. Silicon Valley role models are assertive and confident
in their decisions and activities--they believe they can do what they aim to
do. And they know that the only limits that really count are the ones people
place upon themselves. Looking for the good in other people, dynamos
approach life with enthusiasm. Nancy learned definitively when she was eight
years old that practice builds self-confidence. She loved to draw and wanted
to be a Disney animator someday. With revelation, she recognized that she
must do the things she loved to be happy. She knew what she wanted and went
after it with a fierce conviction of her ability to do it. She insisted on
going to an art college instead of a business college as her mom suggested.
Nancy stayed focused and today she is one of the directors on the
long-running, successful sit-com series, The Simpsons.
2. Educate
Yourself.
Knowledge is power--increased knowledge strengthens self-esteem. The dynamic
people interviewed practice honing their skills every day; learning is a
lifelong habit they enjoy. They operate like Olympians who practice their
skills daily for success--they read, attend seminars, take higher-learning
classes, find mentors, and learn everything they can on the job. To get what
they want, they’re willing to go the extra mile in search of answers. With
childlike ingenuousness, they’re willing to ask questions of knowledgeable
people who have the answers they need to reach success.
3. Work with
Winners.
Super achievers know enough to ask for help and advice. No one succeeds
alone. When making an uncomfortable change is necessary, they garner
support. Marc Isaac Potter “got stuck” writing a manual and asked a
friend to help. Cesar Plata’s whole concept of developing a virtual and
real network of Latino professionals was based on the concept that
connecting with each other is important for success. Gail Turner, the first
woman to build her own aircraft and fly solo from California to Wisconsin,
had 30 friends help her build her second airplane. They came because they
were caught up in her dream and her enthusiasm was infectious. “Don’t be
afraid to ask for help,” Gail said. “Get advice: Successful people love
to help others actualize their dreams.”
4. Take Risks.
They pushed through their fear. They kept on going and kept failure in
perspective. None of them saw an obstacle as the end. They kept on going
trying other routes until they found one that worked. They pushed through
fear by taking more risks. They saw risk as challenges and opportunities.
Networking trailblazer, Cesar Plata of MuyBueno.Net said, “As with anyone
launching a startup business, I have endured many personal and financial
sacrifices and struggles. I did not see these efforts as barriers; I
accepted them as learning experiences. The way I see it, they were simply
unmet challenges.”
5. Exercise the
Will to Change.
Motivators’ inner strength keeps them on course. “Will is like a
muscle--it grows stronger when you exercise it regularly,” said change
expert, Dr. Sidney B. Simon in his book, Getting Unstuck. Dynamos produce
enough will to stay with any course of action they choose. Debbie Murray
went ahead with a typing test required for a better job although her fingers
were in pain from a window slamming down on them the night before. David
Latner left his comfortable environment to travel around the world by
himself although initially he was fearful about embarking on the journey.
Dynamos are passionate about their dreams--and they approach their goals
creatively, open-mindedly, embracing change, and frequently looking for new
opportunities.
6. Keep Hope
Alive.
Visionaries always see alternatives to problems, light at the end of the
tunnel. They look for options and ways to achieve their goals. Kilsoon Kim
maintained hope that her children would be well educated--even after her
husband died and she lost her home. Michael James left a well-paying job to
rekindle his dream of getting into the television business. Little did he
know that he would give up everything to do it. To supplement his income, he
took any kind of temporary job he could--he worked as a receptionist, did
surveys, data entry, and--until his own car was repossessed--delivered
pizza. It got bad. He wondered whether he could continue to live like
this--very little money and no car to get around. He struggled. He left San
Francisco, as it was very competitive. He did volunteer work to learn the TV
business. Eventually he got a part-time job on television. Today he is a
News Photographer for NBC affiliate WSTM-TV in Syracuse New York. “Never
give up,” Michael ! said. “Keep focused on your goal.”
7. Visualize
and Dream Dynamos clearly imagine reaching their goal.
They see the end result in their mind’s eye and then turn their dreams
into reality. They know what it takes to achieve their dreams, and they
persevere until they reach their goal. Marc Isaac Potter dreamed about being
a seminar leader and passionately pursued that goal. Gail Turner dreamed
about building her own airplane although she didn’t know how to do it; she
envisioned and believed it would happen. In the early ‘90s Doug Jones
started Mortgage Magic in his home with $600 and a dream, visualizing that
he had a large, successful business. Today, Mortgage Magic is one of the top
15 mortgage companies in Silicon Valley.
8. Embrace
Excellence.
Achievers compete with themselves and attain excellence by challenging
themselves to do better. Most avoid those deadly energy drainers:
procrastination and perfectionism. Successful people practice
self-improvement each day. Even if what they do isn’t perfect, they remain
flexible to keep on going. Carlos Figueroa, Self-Improvement guru,
challenges himself to try new things every day. And, at the same time, when
he says yes, he keeps his promises. Chao Huang, Internet expert, has
developed several Internet businesses and tests himself daily against his
high standard of quality, stretching himself to stay informed of the rapid
changes in this field.
Success is always a Journey Sal Dossani, president of Joinus travel
agency and a storyteller, says, “Success is always a journey. Once we
actualize a dream, in time we want to move on to something else that will
challenge and fulfill our lives. Be creative and use your inspiration and
imagination to follow your dreams.”
-- Joan Clout-Kruse, author of Top 10 Traits of Silicon Valley Dynamos,
is a founding member and currently serves as President of the non-profit
organization, Success Builders International, A Personal Development
Organization
April 29, 2003
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