The Ostriches
Ostriches define themselves as being baffled, intimidated, or embarrassed by
money. Does this mean Ostriches are unworldly or not used to making a lot of
money? Quite the opposite! You're in every profession, including law, teaching,
medicine, blue-collar or middle-management jobs, or the arts. Whoever you are,
I'm always struck by your fortitude and contradictions. You believe you'll
always survive-even though it's hard for you to deal with money on a day-to-day
basis. Some Ostriches are proud of their indifference to money while others
ignore it until there's a crisis. Most of all, you feel confused or even angry
about how you deal with your finances-a state of mind that arises from the
misguided belief that you can't learn to master money basics. But of course, you
can.
(Continued below ...)
Another aspect of the Ostrich is a variation I call the White Knighter. Here,
you hope that one event or person-a symbolic white knight-will rescue you from
money problems. Winning the lottery or hoping for an unexpected inheritance
keeps you dreaming and thereby neglecting your finances.
Money mastery for Ostriches and White Knighters: After understanding what
steps you can take to help yourself, you'll never again believe that you're
"just not a money person." You'll finally be inspired to snap out of inertia
mode and take charge of your finances.
The Debt Desperadoes
Whether in debt because of overspending or being underfinanced, Debt
Desperadoes are always coming up short. The spending addicts (or shopaholics)
among you prefer the thrill of buying to the security of having. Then again,
some of you are underfinanced because of having lost your jobs. Or you're left
with no assets after some personal catastrophe, and you max out your credit
cards and borrow to pay for staples.
Many Debt Desperadoes hit a wall, and the out-of-control spenders finally go
cold turkey to stop the spendaholism. It's not uncommon for your type to bury
yourselves deeper. You create more debt by borrowing to pay other outstanding
debts and use still active credit cards to charge more stuff.
Money mastery for Debt Desperadoes: Can you finally work your way out of debt
and prove to yourself that you can manage money? Yes! I'll show you how with a
financial plan that's easy to follow. Remember: It's your money, and you deserve
to have it work for you, not against you!
The Coasters
This Money Type is the most financially stable-you're someone who's coping
and thriving. Coasters are, in general, probably doing better than most Money
Types and may not be aware of it. Although there's no money crisis, you don't
have a huge distance to go financially, but a few changes can make a huge
difference.
At their best, Coasters are organized, responsible, and focused on stability.
You are more likely than most types to have decent insurance coverage and have
done some retirement planning. Your weakness shows up when, because you're not
facing any big financial problems, you're too complacent about money. You stop
at the status quo, freeze in time, and coast along with the same investments and
savings. You may even pass by opportunities for the future. So, while you're
financially healthy and happy, you could be a lot more prosperous.
Another aspect of the Coaster is a variation I call the Optimist. A little
spoiled by having been brought up without many financial woes, Optimists are
most known for leaving jobs to work at, for example, companies your generation
virtually invented: the dot-coms and Internet businesses. If you're an Optimist,
you can get into trouble by believing you'll always be bailed out and always get
what is rightfully yours-and that it's what you deserve.
Money mastery for Coasters and Optimists: If you are more of a Coaster than
an Optimist, I'll show you how to meet the challenge of taking a few small steps
away from the status quo and shaking things up for yourself, a little at a time.
You'll be inspired to set new financial goals with money that can ultimately pay
off. If you're an Optimist, you're a bit more confident about the here and now,
so your challenge is to plan more smartly for the future. You're hard workers,
so I'll motivate you to make some important changes to make your money work
better for you.
The High Rollers
For you, money is about the grand gesture infused with bravado and a belief
in the long shot. You're the High Roller, who is likely to be found gambling
around a table, gambling on a dream to build a business, or playing the stock
market on margin. Your type tends to think you're smarter, faster, and
shrewder-and invincible. And when entering a high-risk deal or tossing the dice
at a casino, you think, either, "Out of my way, I'm coming through," or, "This
is my lucky night."
At their best, High Rollers do everything right and risk taking pays off
grandly. The truth is, in the world of money, you have to take some calculated
risks to attain your goals. But weaknesses? High Rollers get into trouble when
they habitually take risks without a safety net. You seek the rush of daring the
universe to take you down. Often, with the throw of the dice, unlucky nights are
more frequent.
Money mastery for High Rollers: Your surest bet is in learning how to manage
your money without completely squelching your risk-taking impulses. You can do
it. I'll show you how to make peace with limiting big risks and find peace in
what you do earn.
The Squirrels
Motivated by a fear of loss, Squirrels are, sadly, cheating themselves. You
have a secret fear of losing everything and believe that the resources you have
are never enough. This fear, when it takes hold, can turn those of you who are
comfortable into hoarders who live way beneath your means.
At your best, your Money Type lives with your assets in a fairly safe, if
financially insular world. At your worst, Squirrels cannot enjoy what they have
or give to others with any sense of generosity. You tend not to see a balanced
picture of money opportunities, nor are you willing to understand how you can
actually be losing money by not making an attempt to improve your financial
situation.
A close cousin of the squirrel is the Bag Lady, a personality who's more
anxious about accumulating assets than any other Money Type. Bag Ladies fear
imminent destitution and loss of control over their lives, worrying that they'll
never have enough money-no matter how much they may actually have socked away.
Money mastery for Squirrels and Bag Ladies: Since your types are so good at
saving money, I hope to inspire you to manage it more wisely. I show you how you
can make a difference in what you have by learning to invest safely and smartly.
Okay, now that you have an idea of what your type may be, here's how knowing
your Money Type can make the difference for you:
HOW BEST TO USE THIS BOOK
The book is set up so that you can systematically understand your dominant
Money Type and find other traits that are part of other, less influential types
for you. For instance, you may be an Ostrich/White Knighter by inclination, and
you would say this is your dominant type. But you may have shades of being a
Squirrel or a Coaster/Optimist, too. Take in all the information!
Every chapter opens with a profile of a different Money Type and its
concomitantly distinct strengths and weaknesses. I follow with true-life cases
of that type, which will clarify your type's issues for you in ways with which
you can identify. You'll read about the money problems these people are
grappling with because they are Ostriches or Strivers or High Rollers or
whatever the type. That is, they are stuck repeating negative behavior typical
of their type. I analyze what they're doing and point out how the behavior might
have become second-nature. Next, I provide suggestions for lessening the effect
of negative behavior patterns in the Emotional Path section. Finally, in the
Financial Path for your type, you see how your Money Type can make significant
changes that build, rather than destroy, your financial future.
The payback in mastering the Money Type process is that you do not need to
change your core money personality. What's important is that you examine your
money behavior honestly by reading the suggestions I make for you in the
Emotional Path. Then, make enough effort to unblock progress and take action to
change what's holding you back, as found in the Financial Path.
Too many of you are stuck or feel limited because of how you're living. I
hear from you thousands of times a month, and I understand that you want change
for the better. I'm unable to bestow change upon you, but I can give you
something even better: effective guidance you take for yourself that touches you
both emotionally and financially and makes a real difference.
Before we move on to the next chapter-which is a series of quizzes that will
help reveal your belief systems and intimate feelings about money-let me assure
you of one important point:
I don't expect you to disavow or deny your Money Type, and I hope you don't
feel insecure about what your type turns out to be. Nothing is as critical to
your financial and emotional well-being as working within your type to become
more financially secure. For example, if you're a Squirrel and you have all your
money tied up in low-interest CDs (certificates of deposit), I wouldn't suggest
you sell them and go completely into highrisk futures. What's best for you is to
loosen up a little so you can help your money really grow and learn to enjoy it
more. The power behind the advice in this book is that:
- You can work on the margins of your type to make better decisions with
your money.
- You can learn how to operate from your strengths so you do not continue
to limit your options.
- You can finally increase your level of comfort with money, and you can
learn to make decisions that normally may be unusual for you.
Your new journey to financial mastery begins now!
previous
|
1 |
2
| 3
| 4 | next
Copyright © 2006 by Amherst Enterprises, Ltd., and Lynn Sonberg Book
Associates
Send your press
releases and news to our
Free Press Release Submission
page