WHY SELF-AWARENESS COUNTS IN MAKING MONEY WORK FOR YOU
As psychologists tell me, awareness of the emotional impact of an event is
the first step toward healing. Denial keeps you where you are and promotes
inaction. It takes a little courage to look back, but it has a big payoff:
You're relieved of a lifelong burden that is of no use to you. You need to go
back and track your emotional history and, hopefully, identify the defining
moment or trauma that you keep reliving.
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Awareness makes it safer for you to explore practical financial strategies
you might not have been able to attempt before. Once you understand your traits,
you can take optimal action to improve your entire Money Type profile. You can
set goals based on your strengths with money that will help you realize your
dreams and learn to manage your core weaknesses so that they do not trip you up
any longer. When you get your money weaknesses under control, you can
consolidate your debts and pay them off efficiently, start building a growth
portfolio, understand retirement and estate planning, work with a financial
planner, choose the best mortgage to make the most of your real estate dollar,
and accurately assess your risk tolerance (I have a quiz you can take to learn
more about this in Chapter 8) and learn how to control a long-term financial and
investment plan, and much, much more.
A little more success with finances builds your confidence with money and
extends your reach just enough to realize some dreams. You and your money are
going to have a lifelong relationship, and to make any relationship flourish,
you need to know your strengths, weaknesses, undeveloped talents, and also which
traits are so fundamental to your core personality that you'll need to make
peace with them.
What you feel and how you show your feelings to the world pretty much show up
in your Money Type.
INSIDE MONEY TYPES: MASTER YOUR TYPE AND CHANGE YOUR FORTUNE
So, let's get to the nitty-gritty: What makes a Money Type, and what makes it
yours?
As I began to analyze how people deal with money, I saw that certain groups
of traits clearly defined a financial personality, which is what I mean by a
Money Type. These are the dominant traits that drive people to prosperity, to
ruin, or down a more secure path. If I've learned anything in doing the
extensive research for this book, it is that everyone has a set of attitudes,
fears, behaviors, and values that, when put together, fit into a distinct
personality or Money Type. Dozens of traits make up the Money Types.
With thousands of cases to evaluate, I formulated sets of behaviors and
beliefs that reveal how you care about, use, spend, invest, lose, and earn
money. For example, one profile of a Money Type stresses striving for more.
Another tends to deny the impact of money on their lives, while yet another
takes excessive risks with money or simply prefers to coast along, intent on
maintaining the status quo. Maybe you're tightfisted about money and don't like
spending, borrowing, or giving to others. These traits are reflected in, for
example:
- How you feel about money in general. Perhaps you think money is more
important than anything else, or, conversely, is given too much importance.
- How your background affects the way you deal with money now. Perhaps you
grew up with very little, and now do what you can to ensure you don't
duplicate your parents' money struggles.
- What your fears and fantasies are related to money. Perhaps you fear
poverty, and being out on the street, and therefore, you cannot spend money.
- What your financial situation is now. Perhaps you're doing okay, but you
inherited some money you want to invest. You don't know where to put it to
keep it secure and have it grow.
- Where your ultimate financial goals lie. Perhaps you'd like to buy a
beachfront home to retire to and not worry about running out of money to
live on.
Then I had another revelation: The best way for me to help people effectively
was by tailoring my advice for the best fit within your dominant personal
financial style. I could match a person's emotional experience of money with
individualized practical financial advice. This was the key to effective change.
In working out the types, I found that almost everyone falls within one dominant
Money Type but has a characteristic or two from other types. As you read through
the chapters devoted to each Money Type, you'll see how your complete financial
personality is revealed to you more clearly.
Here, then, are brief profiles of the six basic Money Types. You'll probably
see yourself in one or more of the types, but start out by focusing on the
behaviors and money habits that most dominate your finances now. Be sure to read
every chapter. There are true stories, confessions, revelations, and real
financial turnarounds to inspire your own efforts! Start with:
The Strivers
For you, the starting point is about acquiring, achieving, and letting others
know how much you have. Since money and what it can buy are measures of success,
Strivers find a way to play the part of the success story before they've
attained the role. At their best, Strivers have energy and drive to make things
happen. You make great entrepreneurs, who are willing to take a chance on new
ideas, and invest in yourself. Strivers get into trouble when the focus is on
overspending-and in forgetting how your income matches up with your expenses.
Striving to live up to standards beyond your means tends to get you into debt
and interpersonal troubles.
Money mastery for Strivers: If anyone can meet the challenge of gaining
control of money by cutting back on nonessentials, it's you. You should still be
able to afford some luxury items, but most importantly, you'll learn how to put
money aside for the future and make your money grow.
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