When we decide to start a home
business, most of us are eager to get moving and achieve the success we know
we're capable of. Some of us go full steam ahead and immediately start
seeing results, while others seem to keep running into snags and obstacles
no matter how hard we try to get ahead. It's important to consider that we
may have subconscious issues that are preventing us from moving forward and
achieving the success we desire.
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If you've been struggling to make a success of your home business and
feel like you've got invisible walls holding you back, ask yourself these
five questions:
1. Are you afraid of success?
Most of us THINK we want to be successful,
but deep down inside we fear it. Why would anyone fear success? Because
being "successful" often comes with a lot of baggage. We aren't necessarily
afraid of the success itself, but what comes along with it. We might find
ourselves in the spotlight and have more attention and admiration thrown our
way. That sounds like a good thing, but it can be unnerving if we're not
prepared to deal with it. We might also find ourselves with increased
responsibility. Can we handle the pressure and do what is required of us?
Can we properly support a large team and customer base? What if we don't
have what it takes? As these thoughts keep floating through our mind,
self-doubt creeps in, and we find ourselves shying away from the activities
that could bring the success we desire. The best remedy for these fearful
thoughts is to keep affirming your own ability to handle whatever comes your
way. Take some time to study t! he aspects of business you fear, such as
building long-term customer relationships and leadership techniques.
Knowledge is power, and as you learn and grow, your confidence will also.
2. Are you afraid of rejection or ridicule?
This is a big issue for some
of us. If we have a big enough fear of rejection, we will avoid seeking new
customers, clients and recruits. A wonderful technique to overcome this fear
is to practice releasing your expectation of the outcome. When you approach
a potential customer or recruit, make it your mission to put the information
in front of them, and not get hung up on whether they will buy or sign on.
It can be helpful to set "action goals" versus "results goals" also. For
example, instead of making it your goal to gain five new customers each
week, make it your goal to APPROACH twenty potential customers each week.
Don't worry about how many will join you, just focus on perfecting your
presentation and being helpful, professional and available. If you have a
good product and a positive attitude, people will be attracted to you and
want what you have to offer. Your job is simply to make it available.
3. Do you have negative emotions about money?
While we dream of having a
large, successful business that pays well, many of us also have negative
thoughts about people who have a lot of money. We fear becoming one of
"them" -- snobby, rude rich people. We might also feel guilty about having a
lot of money when so many people in the world have nothing. If you have
negative issues attached to money, you will resist the manifestation of it
in your life. Your mind and heart will be at war and not allow you to create
the wealth you truly want and deserve. The thing to understand about money
is that it's simply the physical representation of abundance in your life.
Money itself is not good or bad. It's what you do with the money that gives
it positive or negative connotations. Just because you begin earning a lot
of money doesn't mean you will turn into a snob. You can choose your
attitude and remain just as kind and compassionate as you are today. And by
having plenty of financial resources at your disposal, think of all the
people you could help. Rather than feeling guilty about having a comfortable
life, you can reach out and share your wealth with others.
4. Do you lack confidence?
Lack of confidence in yourself, the company
you represent, or the products you are selling can hold you back also.
Confidence, like anything else, is a learned skill that grows stronger with
practice. If you are new to your home business, you might shy away from
approaching potential customers and recruits because you aren't comfortable
with the procedures yet, or feel you don't know enough. You might be afraid
that people will ask a question you can't answer. Remember the first few
times you drove a car? You were nervous and cautious, weren't you? Are you
more confident driving now? I bet you are, because you've done it thousands
of times. You can also become comfortable with the aspects of your home
business that frighten you, by simply practicing until you feel more
comfortable with them. Devote some time to memorizing your prospecting
script, the benefits of your products, and your approach. Write it all down
and read it aloud over and over again until you've memorized it and feel
more comfortable with it. Your confidence and enthusiasm will then shine
through and attract success.
5. Are you afraid of failure?
Some of us never even get started because
we're so afraid we might fail. We're afraid to even try to make our dreams a
reality. It seems safer to stay in our unhappy circumstances, because even
though we aren't satisfied, at least they are familiar and comfortable. The
unknown is scary. But if we don't try, we'll miss out on the chance to make
our lives better. Progress and advancement in life is not gained by sitting
meekly on the sidelines; we need to actually get in the game and start
playing! The only true failures in life occur when we give up or don't try
at all.
No matter what fears hold you back, know that you have the power to
overcome them and achieve every success you desire. Simply begin changing
your negative thoughts to positive ones, and take steps to make your dream a
reality. When you come up against something that frightens you or makes you
uncomfortable, know that you've just encountered an invisible barrier to
your success. You can choose to let it defeat you, or you can smash it to
bits by pushing right through it.
About the Author:
Wendy Betterini is a freelance writer, web designer and owner of
http://www.CreativeWorkAtHome.com , a resource center for home business
owners and telecommuters. Visit today for information on how to make your
work at home experience successful.
February 2006
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